What is right n what is wrong??

Hey, happy Sunday morning ^^

after one tiring week, finally i can get a weekend for rest and refresh my brain...
i'm too tired for thinking...

thinking this n that, hmm is it life just about thinking?
maybe,
as a human being, thinking is be a part from our life system, right

this week i keep thinking about some problem in my life..
about what is right and what is wrong with me

sometime i feel so perfect with my life, but sometime i'm feel so terrible and like a pathetic person

first problem is about my family,
i'm so happy with my parents, coz i know if them really care n love me
but sometime it feels so over
at my 23rd years old now, i think they must not treat me as a child again...
i think i was have a right, to choose what i like n what i want to do
but in this last day, they keep pushing their wants... and want me to follow n obey it
i can't speak anything to them, its like i'm become paralyzed
Damn, i'm so tired of this, didn't they aware if i was an adult now
they want me to appreciate their will, but they disable to appreciate my own decision...
when i was child, they ever told me, if as long as i lived from their money i must be accept every their command... okay i agree with that
just pretend that as a take and give....
but now i have work n i was able to feed my self... and their still give me command for do this n that...
is it a good relationship in one family?
please, just tell me what is right and what is wrong

my second problems is about my friends n my relation...
i always thought if one good friend can accept me more or less
they must able to accept me like i am what i am
there's no requirement in friendship...
in a friendship i like a honesty
even sometime it hear more heart full, i think its better that make a bad talking behind me
and acting good in front of me
i'm an open minded person, so i can accept every opinion and suggestion that they give for me
but i really hate with a judgement
every people have a right to clarify and declare what they think its right from his point of view
so they shouldn't just make a bad judging with me
in this last day there's be a lot lie and a bad mouth that i hear from people around me
yup, they keep say if i'm a liar, dreamer and fake person
ok i can accept that
but please explain and say something to me why you can think like that...
if its true i can accept it and i will make an introspection from that
and if its not true i can make a clarification too... is it good right?
don't make a judgement just from your side, you must hear my story version too
then its named fair...

yeah, until now i still don't know what is right and what is wrong with me
maybe somebody outside there can tell me